Is it rude to decline a baby shower?
Is it rude to decline a baby shower? As long as you RSVP that you will not be attending, no, it’s generally not rude. To just not show up at any party when you said you would is rude, so it is advisable to always give as much notice as possible and to be very apologetic for your absence.
Do you still give a shower gift if not attending?
“It’s not obligatory to buy a gift if you can’t attend the shower, but it’s a nice gesture if you are close to the bride,” says Gottsman. Be sure to include a card letting the bride know you wish you could be there.
Do you have to send a gift if not attending a baby shower?
Though a gift is expected if a guest attends, guests should only be invited to help celebrate the upcoming arrival, not for the gift they bring. If a guest is invited to a shower but can’t attend, there is no obligation to send a gift, though they certainly may if they want to.
What should you not do at a baby shower?
- Do not forget to RSVP.
- Do not forget to show up.
- Do not forget to include a gift receipt.
- Do not forget to give clothing in different sizes.
- Do not forget to match the size with the season.
- Do not get drunk.
- Do not give gifts that mom-to-be doesn’t want.
